I dated a guy, got pregnant, and his parents made him leave me and traveled out of the country. Another guy came along, supported me through birth, and paid for my training. We’ve been together 3 years. Now my baby’s dad wants me back. I’m torn because I still love him and he might take me to the US. How do I tell my current partner without hurting him? He’s been great to me, but I don’t feel the same. I want to be honest with him about my feelings, but I also want to ensure that he doesn’t feel betrayed or hurt by my decision. While I’m grateful for everything he’s done for me, I know deep down that he might not be the right match for me.

How can I communicate this to him without causing unnecessary pain? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.