I and my boyfriend we have been dating since our secondary school days. We are both from good homes. We got engaged but we do not have enough finance to do a wedding so we both agreed to save up and plan towards it. We applied for a visa and got it. We are presently living together in same apartment and we have been here for a period of 8 months now. We both work and our jobs seems to be taking so much of our time and now we barely have time for ourselves. I have a colleague who is a very cute guy from Ghana and we seems to have connected very well and I think I’m falling for him. He likes me a lot too while my man on the other hand is not even making any effort to work on our relationship. Each time I talk to him about it, he ends the conversation with we are both busy and we should focus on making money first but I’m bored in the relationship.

At this point I think I want to leave my man and start a relationship with this new guy because he is calm, loving and cares so much about me. Please who have an idea about moving in with someone new in the UK? I want to know more details about it. I would have stayed with my man but he is not even listening to me or trying to see how we can work on our relationship. The other guy is ready to take me in and we vibe really well.

Should I still keep my guy by the side and still date this guy just Incase something happens or I should move in with this guy fully? I like my man but I can’t continue staying in a boring relationship. Please what should I do.

Thank you and I hope you get to post my story.