Hi Oma

Thank you for this safe platform. I’m in the most confused state right now. I’m a single mum and I met this guy who accepted my child and said he is also a single dad with a daughter. The relationship was going on well and we are so much in love. The relationship have been on for a year now and he was already talking about meeting my family for introduction. He is from Delta and whenever he talks to his family, he speaks his language so I can’t even hear his language. Recently, his sister came visiting and I happen to be around. She was very cool with me and all that. So one day she just opened up and told me the truth that my boyfriend has three kids( all girls) and he is not a single father but a married man. His wife and kids are based in London and he goes to see them twice a year and for real my boyfriend travels twice a year

and he keeps saying it’s business and I believed and trusted him. His wife is also from his tribe so whenever she calls, they speak their language. Since I got this news my heart have been heart broken. I had to check his phone and found all the evidence I needed. I confronted him and he said it’s true but he loves me so much and won’t mind having me as a wife.In real sense I love this guy so much and I’m pregnant for him as well. My mind have been all over the place.

I’m confused and heart broken. My son already likes him a lot and now I’m pregnant for him. I never thought it will turn out like this because this man seems so genuine.

Please I’m confused and tired. Post and I’m definitely reading comments. Thank you.