Hi Oma

please post my story.

Before I met my husband,i was working in the bank and when we got married I was still working there until I got pregnant and put to bed.Now here is the issue.My husband told me to stop working reason because it takes more of my time and I need to focus on the baby which I agreed to but  since I stopped working,I have been solely dependent on him for everything and I honestly don’t like it.He is not complaining but I feel like I should be helping out even if it’s small.Now I have saved up some money and I told him I want to start a business even if it’s small,let me just start but he bluntly refused and said I need to focus on being a mum and wife.I don’t like the idea of asking him for everything.I have begged him, spoke to him calmly but he still refused .I’m thinking starting the business without him knowing but it will bring problem and I don’t want that.I have told my mum but she said I should listen to my husband and don’t disrespect him.I have read stories of women who depend on their husbands for everything and things go wrong and they have no back up plan.I don’t want to be in that situation even tho I’m not praying for such but I need to have something for myself. I don’t believe in that saying “my husbands money is mine”

Please what other way should I go about this? because I’m not use to depending on someone even tho he is my husband.I’m use to fending for myself before I got married and I can’t stop now.

What is the best way to go about this please?