Hi Oma

I’m pregnant but my Husband is not responsible for it.

I have been married for 5 years  but no child .I use to think I was the problem because my husband people made me believe so.My husband has been calm about the whole issue and each I tell him let’s go and see a doctor,he avoids it and just says we are both fine and we will have a child when God wants us to.I was so frustrated because of the constant complain from his family and they even told him to marry a second wife but he refused.Out of frustration I went to a party with my friends and I hooked up with a guy.I didn’t intentionally do it but it just happened and it was one time.Recently I found out I was pregnant and I know deep down my husband is not responsible for the baby.This baby is what I have been praying for but with the wrong person.

Now I’m beginning to think my husband is the one with the problem because  I got pregnant with just one encounter with someone who is not my husband but I have been with my husband for 5 years and not even one miscarriage.

I don’t know if to tell him about the pregnancy and act like it’s his but what if he knows he has a problem and hide It from me? And why will he do that for 5 years.He will definitely know the baby isn’t his and this will mean the end of my marriage and I love my husband so much.

I don’t even want to take it out either because this is what I have always wanted.

Please how do I go about this because it’s been eating me up and I don’t want to raise a child without a dad.

please post Oma