I just came across your website and I thought to share my story.

I’m in a relationship with this guy who has a baby mama.I love his daughter and I don’t have any issue with that but the only issue is his baby mama.She is a single girl and she wont let me enjoy my relationship.She comes over at odd hours using their daughter as an excuse.Some times she calls my boyfriend when we are sleeping,saying his daughter is very sick and she needs help.My boyfriend will rush over to her place and sometimes he comes back the next day.She is becoming a pest in our lives and I’m not finding it funny.I have complained to my boyfriend about it and he says he is doing all of this because of his daughter and doesn’t want the lady to take his daughter from him and he doesn’t have anything with the baby mama.

The other day she came around with her daughter,she told me to my face that she will always be involved with my boyfriend because of their daughter and nothing can change that so if I know what is good for me I should better leave.I told my boyfriend what she said, he said I should not take her seriously and he is only involved with his daughter and he loves me so much.But I’m really no longer comfortable with the whole baby mama drama.I love my boyfriend very much but I don’t know if I can marry him except this girl finds love and gets married if not I won’t have peace and I want a peaceful marriage.He is talking about meeting my people for introduction but I’m just delaying the process because of this whole issue.Please how do I go about this without sounding like I want to disassociate him from his daughter.