Hi Oma,

I read your recent post about a lady who caught her husband making out with her sister and i have a similar story but the only difference is this person is my boyfriend.

So here is my story,I met my boyfriend early this year and the ever since i introduced him to my friend, she has been giving me different negative advice concerning him.She will say i should not trust him and he is definitely a player. She is just saying everything negative about him but this guy really love me and he buys me gifts which i usually show my friend out of excitement and honestly i started having double mind towards him after all the advice she gave me because she is my friend and i have known her for more than 10years,so we are practically like sisters and i have had a bad relationship experience but i didn’t know all this while she has been making advances towards my boyfriend, sending him Instagram messages and the worst part is she has also been telling my boyfriend awful things about me. She told him i use to do hookup and i can never be a faithful girlfriend and she use to advice me to stop hookup and i still use to do it. This girl said so many things i cant even mention here. She even went as far as going to his place to throw herself at him and my boyfriend did a video of her and showed me everything and according to him, nothing happened. I almost died because i never for one day imagined that she will do such a thing to me and she knows i love this guy a lot

I told my boyfriend that i am going to confront her but he said i should not but act cool with her and make her feel like she has won because we live together and we don’t  know her plans but honestly, i cant live with her in same house without confronting her after finding out what she did. I’m boiling inside and cant keep it inside my mind anymore because that’s not who i am. If anybody offends me, i must confront them and i don’t know how to keep things in my mind. I’m so hurt.

Please how do i handle this situation?