Why is it so difficult for single mothers to find love especially in Lagos.It’s been 4 years since I had my daughter and since then it’s been so difficult to find someone that will accept me and my daughter. Immediately they find out I have a daughter, they slowly start detaching from me and I have had series of failed relationship because of that.

Recently,I met a guy and it’s been going on so smooth and I really like him a lot. My daughter is with my mum for holiday and will be back soon but I’m so scared to even tell him about my daughter because I don’t want to lose him.

I was in his house for the weekend and he was on the phone with his friend who met a lady that has a son and he told him about how he can’t date a lady That have a Kid and single Mum’s are like baggage’s.
Immediately I heard the conversation, I became so scared  the more to even tell him. This guy is a very nice guy and he loves me too. I don’t know what to do anymore. Should I hide my daughter from him for now or should I tell him about her and just accept whatever outcome? I’m tired of being single,I’m 30 years and I’m not getting any younger.

Some times I cry myself to sleep because of series of heart break and it gets so lonely too.

Please post and I will be reading comments.

Thanks