Hi Oma

please this is my 3rd time sending a message and I hope you get to post this one.

How can I tell my boyfriend of 3years that I don’t want the relationship again? I met this guy and he has been good to me. He sends me money occasionally and he is really intentional about me. My boyfriend on the other hand is always preaching love to me, he doesn’t spend money on me and he is always about us growing together. I’m not getting any younger and I want to settle down but I don’t want to do that with a guy who doesn’t have money. This other guy is talking about marriage and seems serious about me but just that we met barely 6 months ago. I love my boyfriend but I can’t settle for less at this point. If he offends me in any little way, I will always make a big issue out of it but he will apologize till I forgive him.

He doesn’t want anything that will get me upset and it’s making it very hard to break up with him. I won’t lie, my boyfriend is a very good guy and he loves me so much but he doesn’t have the financial ability enough and I’m not ready to suffer with anybody.

I don’t want to make it look like I’m hurting him. I just want to know how to go about it.

Thank you