I came across your website and a particular topic on your website made me want to tell me story. My marriage is just a year plus and I have noticed something about my husband. He is fond of liking girl’s pictures on Instagram.

Sometimes he will even comment. I will just randomly come across a girl’s post and I will see my husband like. I have asked him why he does that and he said it’s not serious and that I should not take it too personal. I let that slide but I was still not okay with it. The one that is actually disturbing me is, he always hides his phone and whenever I want to even touch it, he doesn’t allow me and whenever he does, he must monitor what I’m doing with his phone. He takes some calls privately and some times at odd hours in the night. when I’m sleeping, he sneaks out of the room to take calls with the hope that I will be sleeping but I’m not.

He has so many female friends and each time I complain, he says they are just his friends and nothing is going on between him and them. I have complained several times but it’s not just working. The last one that happened, I saw a chat between him and a lady on his Instagram. He mistakenly left his phone unlocked .His WhatsApp has password so I could not access it but the Instagram doesn’t that was how I saw the chat. He was complimenting a lady, telling her she looks good and so hot. He said so many nice things to her. I could not read more chats before he came and I had to lock the phone and move away. I love my husband but I don’t like this attitude of his. I have spoken to him but it’s not working.

Please how can I go about this because this is getting too much