Hi Oma

I don’t know if I should be sending this but I have to because I’m tired already.
My wife gave birth to our daughter 2022 January.When she gave birth,she added so much weight due to breastfeeding and child birth and I totally understand that. She has stopped breastfeeding but she is still very fat and Infact she is adding more.She will buy big bread and finish it with a big cup of tea.

She eats a lot and I have told her countless times to watch how she eats but she wont Listen.I even offered to register her in the gym but she decline saying Gym is hard work and she is not ready.This is not the woman I fell in love with and married.I’m ready to help her with the process but she is not ready.

She looks older than me like my mother and I’m older than her. I can’t even go on dates with her because of how old she looks now
I see other ladies who have given birth and they look like they haven’t.But my wife only
one child and she is looking like who have given birth to 3 kids.I love her so much that’s why I’m ready to help her lose weight but she is not ready and I don’t want to cheat on her but if she doesn’t change,I just might have a side chick. I can’t even enjoy love making with her because her fatness is every where.
Please what other way can I get my wife to lose weight? Because I’m getting frustrated.
Please post and I will be reading comments