Hi Oma

please i have been watching your videos on you tube and i just want to share how I’m feeling. I started working for this couple last year as their house girl and since i started living with them, i saw how this woman treats her husband. She doesn’t talk to him with respect,she is always giving him one issue or the other.She is always shouting and i always hear her voice from my room.She doesn’t give this man peace and a woman is supposed to be her husband peace but this woman is the exact opposite of what  a peaceful woman should be.

My boss is a very nice man,like very sweet man who just wants a happy home and no matter how his wife attitude is towards him,he still treats her like a queen and he is so cute. This is the type of man i wish to have.I feel like this woman doesn’t deserve my boss and every time my boss is nice to me,she always gets jealous. He is just a free person and  he is really nice to me, unlike his wife. I’m gradually  falling in love with him. I have tried to make him notice me each time his wife is not home but i doubt if he does and i want to make a move towards him but I’m scared he might reject me and i just might lose my job.It just pains me to see him going through all what his wife does to him sometimes.I spoke to my friend and she said i should keep trying to make him notice me and one day he will fall for me. Each time i see the wife  i just feel angry. I have never felt this way for a married man before like i feel for my boss. I just wish i am his wife. Please i am not trying to break their home but i just feel my boss deserves better and i am here for him. Maybe God brought me to this house to save my boss from this toxic marriage.

please are my feelings valid?